The Perfect Me
The Perfect Me
The Perfect me I’ve never met
The one I’m always searching for.
Found her in my sleep last night
She was sitting at the front door.
Not sure whether to go out or come in
Not sure where she belonged.
I’d been searching for her so long
She wasn’t sure whether I’d come or gone.
I told her come on in I said
You can rest here in my bed.
I think I’ll rest here too
Then when were ready we’ll get up
And do whatever we choose to do.
No need for perfect anymore
Now that we together can explore.
She said she liked me yes
That being with me was fun
I said I wished it hadn’t taken so long
For my fear to come undone.
She said that was okay, that it takes time for pain to go away.
And that it need not go far, for it is part of who we each are.
The point she said was not to let it hold you in its grasp
But dance with it instead, to leap and twirl and spin
Become the person you can be when you really let me in.
You, you’re in pain I gasped, so sorry, what can I do?
You’re doing it, she said with a smile, by letting me be here with you.
Margaret Rosenau, © 2014
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